Life when you have 4 kids under 4…

Life is actually good. That doesn’t mean it isn’t stressful, but all is well. After doing IVF to conceive our 3 year old son, then doing an FET cycle to conceive our 15 month old frat twin girls, we were shocked and excited to welcome our surprise baby girl 2 months ago. The best thing my husband and I have done in my opinion is to have a set routine daily of what goes down in the house. It just helps so much when it comes to dinner, bath, play, sleep, wake up, daycare, work, pick up kids, repeat.

When it comes to birth control we have talked about my husband doing a vasectomy. Even though I feel like I am done, and I don’t want anymore children… I still would like to wait until we are like 34, 35 just to be sure. Sometimes I want to try just to see if it would happen again without any assistance from fertility doctors. I am curious if my PCOS is gone? I also would love to try for another little boy, but a healthy baby is what’s most important. My doctor said that I have minimal scar tissue but maybe I shouldn’t *do it again*. I wasn’t really sure why she said that, but I do think it’s because I have had 3 c sections, and one of my pregnancies was a twin pregnancy, so my body definitely needs to recover. I have basically been pregnant for like the last 3 years lol.

I just spilled coffee on my favorite housecoat…

Seven years ago, I interviewed for a pt job at Merrill lynch, help desk position. I got the job, but since then I have had A LOT of jobs. I am searching so hard for a career that will work with having 4 children under 4 but it is hard. I started teaching high school during my last pregnancy but it was just too much. I was exhausted. I am hoping now that I am not pregnant I will hopefully have the energy to teach again. I just don’t want to give up because I really need career stability. My husband has been so supportive of all of my career and mood changes lol. I just want to be stable enough on my end to be able to return the favor and support him with his career goals. He is a much better worker than me. I have got to get my sh*t together.

I am taking my math certification exam grades 6-12. I am nervous but since I have this open contract with my school district to teach math and if I don’t pass this test I won’t be certified. If I don’t get certified I won’t have a job. Pray for me 🙂




About Wonton87

31 Married Lady From Florida, living life to the fullest. Blogging through IVF/FET/ART/PCOS.
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